Saturday, February 9, 2013
Friday, February 1, 2013
Give A Donation - Get a Webpage Today!
I won't tell you any lies. Radio and Television Advertising works well. Over the last 10 years in business, I tested them both and they work and work well. What I will tell you though is that failing to use the technology to also advertise your business is just like not giving GAS to your vehicle.
We've been able to stay alive and make a sale bit by bit and stay alive simply because we've used Websites and Social Media, which is LESS EXPENSIVE and free to stay ALIVE.
Dare 2 Be Different International (USA) Inc wants to help you do that too.
Give any of our offices a donation and we'll build a simple advertising webpage for your small business or organization to keep advertising you 24-7 - 365 days a year. We've mastered the art of TECHNOLOGY in Business and Ministry in order to survive and we want to HELP YOU. (This is a Dare 2 Be Different Ministry of Helps Project)
Have you visited some our webpages and websites well known across the world?
www.thesupplyshopinc.com www.kvkenterprises.com www.kvktalks.com www.d2bdtv.com
www.hopeisahead.com www.kwforpm.com www.kvkdeals.com www.djmerci.com
www.thecaribbeanprintshop.com www.daretobedifferentghana.com www.daretobedifferentkenya.com
www.daretobedifferentsvg.com www.askbrotherkhrystus.com www.d2bdradio.com
We've been able to stay alive and make a sale bit by bit and stay alive simply because we've used Websites and Social Media, which is LESS EXPENSIVE and free to stay ALIVE.
Dare 2 Be Different International (USA) Inc wants to help you do that too.
Give any of our offices a donation and we'll build a simple advertising webpage for your small business or organization to keep advertising you 24-7 - 365 days a year. We've mastered the art of TECHNOLOGY in Business and Ministry in order to survive and we want to HELP YOU. (This is a Dare 2 Be Different Ministry of Helps Project)
Have you visited some our webpages and websites well known across the world?
www.thesupplyshopinc.com www.kvkenterprises.com www.kvktalks.com www.d2bdtv.com
www.hopeisahead.com www.kwforpm.com www.kvkdeals.com www.djmerci.com
www.thecaribbeanprintshop.com www.daretobedifferentghana.com www.daretobedifferentkenya.com
www.daretobedifferentsvg.com www.askbrotherkhrystus.com www.d2bdradio.com
Call: 869-465-2585 / 869-663-0114 / 869-664-0911 / BB PIN: 2A3CBAA3
Get your business more exposure from TODAY - NO CHARGE - Just give a donation to our Dare 2 Be Different Ministry
Tuesday, January 22, 2013
Fire Your Marketing Department Today - We Carry Out Global Marketing Campaigns Around The Globe For Less
WE WORK WITH ALL BUDGETS - From the 1 Man Company to the Fortune 500 Companies
Search "Khrystus Wallace" or "KVK ENTERPRISES" or "Dare 2 BE Different" or "Hope is Ahead" on any search engine and you'll find us to the top of your searches. We want to make this happen to you too. WE KNOW HOW. . . .
In trying economic times, many companies are being FORCED to FIRE THEIR MARKETING DEPARTMENTS and outsource their marketing jobs and contracts to firms such at Khrystus Wallace Consulting - www.kwconsultingskn.com
Let's be realistic! Why pay for 40 hours a week for a full office of marketing officers that are barely producing and barely helping to bring in extra sales? Why pay for a Full Marketing staff that barely has ideas and are not using the most innovative and technological tools available?
Why pay for a marketing staff, extra utilities, extra time with human resource, vehicle expenses, insurance etc when you can hire firms like Khrystus Wallace Consulting - www.kwconsultingskn.com
We have THE IDEAS! We have the Screen Printing Machines! We have the Embroidery Machines! We Have the Banner Printing Machines! We Have the Printers to Print Flyers and Posters! We Have the people to build the websites! We have the people to send to your country to help carry out the campaign! We have it all! WE CAN HELP YOU!
What has kept us going during turbulent time? It's our marketing skills! Even when things get rough, we still let the world know what we can do and people still keep using one of our services and the little that comes in from here and there keeps us going. In all your cutting BACK - NEVER CUT BACK ON MARKETING! Just RESTRUCTURE YOUR MARKETING DEPARTMENT AND OUTSOURCE YOUR WORK.
Call Khrystus Today: 869-664-0911 / BB PIN: 2A3CBAA3
Companies, Churches, Non Profit Organizations, Political Parties are turning to the internet to outsource marketing and consulting companies to do their marketing for them. One of the companies they happily turn to is Khrystus Wallace Consulting - www.kwconsultingskn.com
We do everything IN-HOUSE and your never have to go else where to get make your marketing dreams reality!
Our Marketing Services - All Inhouse - We Do It Ourselves
* T-shirt, Embroidery, Polo Shirt - Screen Printing and Embroidery
* We print your logo or message on mousepads, keyrings, mugs, banners, signs, etc
* We create 1 Hour Promotional Webpages and also build full websites
* We help companies build ECOMMERCE websites and start allowing their customers to shop online while they charge credit cards
* We are Social Media Experts - TWITTER, FACEBOOK, LINKED-IN and dozens of other Social Media Websites
* We can travel to your country to carry head up door to door marketing campaigns
* We run SMS and EMAIL Marketing Campaigns
* We produce Radio and TV Commercials
* We run YOUTUBE Campaigns and send visitors to your videos
* We build a customer database for you
* We Do FAST AND CREATIVE Political Marketing and Give 21st Century Advice around the world - www.kwforpm.com
We provide Consulting and Other Business Services to help get your business up to scratch with Technology and help train your employees all around the world. Motivational Inspiration Khrystus Wallace can surely get the job done - he'll come himself and walk with his team
We can get the job done for you! We're ready to start yesterday! Email: info@kwconsultingskn.com to give us an idea of what you want and do include your Telephone Number
Remember - EVERY CENT COUNTS NOW A DAYS. You can get more for your money by OUTSOURCING TO THE CARIBBEAN! No more employees, no more rent to pay, no more extra human resource issues, cut down on your electricity bills, no employee insurance and social security to pay.
THOUSANDS OF COMPANIES ARE TURNING TO WWW.ELANCE.COM - We market our services there too.
Email: info@kwconsultingskn.com
TEL: 869-664-0911 or 786-401-4016
BB PIN: 2A3CBAA3
Visit our other endeavours:
For T-shirt Printing and More www.kvkenterprises.com - Turning 10 in 2013
For Ministry and Encouragement - www.daretobedifferentskn.com - Turing 5 in 2013
Our USA Hub - www.thesupplyshopinc.com
Open a $1000 Store - www.1000dollarstores.com
Thursday, January 17, 2013
Computer and Skill Classes From Monday thanks to New Dare 2 Be Different Academy
Ahead of The Grand Opening of The Dare 2 Be Different Victory Centre - www.thevictorycentre.com, 26 year old President and Founder of the Ministry said that after prayerful consideration and as his team did the final touches on their new Computer Lab at OOJJS 24 Hour Complex - St. Kitts, he thought it would be most fitting to launch his Dare 2 Be Different Academy - www.daretobedifferentacademy.com dream before the church because of two reasons.
1. He wanted the world to see that The Dare To Be Different Victory Centre was a church that would not only cater to the spiritual upliftment of individuals, but to every aspect of their development including their Educational and Skills Development
2. He wanted to teach religious organizations around St. Kitts-Nevis, The Caribbean and The World something. Once a business fundraising asset is established to handle the liabilities of the church and in the process help the members, The Church wouldn't need to overtax and push members to give and make them feel like if they don't give, they will go to hell. Such an asset would immediately allow the ministry to support missions overseas, send away their preachers to preach crusades and teams to help in foreign Vacation Bible Schools and other ministry events etc and help other organizations attached to the ministry.
Wallace said that when members see that their church is doing more than just preaching, praying and collecting, they would definitely obey God's command to tithe and give offerings, but if they ever play stingy, he would not be ever at all stressed, because God's Idea would be bringing income to support the ministry. Wallace believes though that The Dare 2 Be Different Victory Centre would not have any problem at all collecting as the BODY would feel empowered and energized and see their ministry heading somewhere and will be excited about helping further and also building the kingdom of God.
Wallace, started teaching his first CXC classes that comprised of Teachers, Headteachers and Education Officers at age 16 in 2002 when he graduated Valedictorian from The Verchilds High School. He said that his ideas about schooling and education since a little boy were always different to the status quo but many times when he spoke, society would just love his dreams but never think about pushing them into place. Wallace said that he felt that at the start of the year, as his ministry gives God thanks for bringing them to 5 years, he thought now was the BEST time to again STAND OUT and introduce EDUCATION with a difference not only to St. Kitts - Nevis, but to the Caribbean and The World.
The Dare 2 Be Different Academy and Bible Institute - www.daretobedifferentacademy.com offers FIVE (5) convenient ways to recieve training.
1. Online Sessions
2. In-Day Sessions
3. Evening Sessions
4. At Home Sessions
5. Travel Sessions (where tutors visit countries upon invitation to teach particular courses
The Dare 2 Be Different Academy will open its Pre-School and Kindergarten (Under the Supervision of Mrs. Vanta Walters and Mrs. Yvette Wallace) ONLY in September 2013. Students who want to be apart of the 8:30am - 3:30pm sessions in the future, MUST enter at kindergarten and transfers would only be considered on a case by case basis, because the ministry wanted to be responsible for nurturing a new breed of youths.
The Organization also has FIVE (5) Training Divisions
1. Academics - Pre-School, Primary, High School / Adult Learning (Afternoon - Evening Sessions)
2. Skills for Life Training (Technical & Vocational)
3. The Computer Corner
4. The Business Training Centre
5. Ministry and Bible School
See www.daretobedifferentacademy.com
Wallace's idea is to be TOTALLY DIFFERENT to the common educational systems around the Caribbean and the world. Some of his dreams are:
1. Keep classes small or have teachers / teacher aids assigned to a certain quota of individuals to ensure that each youth and adult student gets the care and attention they need and NO CHILD OR STUDENT EVER GETS LEFT BEHIND.
2. Provide counselling so that students and parents understand that in a complex and challenging world as today, they CANNOT just focus on the academics, but they need to consider getting a SKILL TOO. The Dare 2 Be Different Academy will be able to assist in this area as well under its Skills Division.
Wallace has said that he was totally ashamed of the ministries in his country and around the Caribbean for not pushing for the Ministry of Education to re-introduce CXC Religious Education or some sought of Bible Certificate Program or even Online Bible Education Diploma or Degree programs and he was working with Bible Colleges to ensure that not only his members, but other individuals too, would be able to come to the institute, get training and also write religious exams online and get accredited certification.
Although Khrystus has taught Caribbean Examination Council (CXC) Information Technology for the last 10 years and has helped scores of students and adults pass, he has always contended that the syllabus needed urgent revision and the Examination Body should make the training more job-friendly and should offer a particular MAJOR such as graphic arts, computer repairs, software training etc.
Wallace said that over the years, he had turned down many individuals wanting a job who had a distinction in Information Technology and hired those who were the school's kickouts and/or drop outs and taught them what he wanted them to learn and gave them a skill for life. Something CXC Information Technology doesn't fully cater too.
Wallace has always felt that ALL STUDENTS shouldn't be required to write/learn the programming aspect of the subject because 99% rarely go on to CODE COMPUTERS. He feels that that component is only added to make the subject more difficult to pass and it wasn't fair to those trying to get certification around the Caribbean.
The Dare 2 Be Different Academy continues to partner with accredited institutions overseas so that individuals in the Caribbean would no longer just have to depend on a pass in CXC Information Technology but have alternative accredition in specific computer related fields.
Ms. Vanta Walters, Veteran Early Childhood Specialist, Mrs. Yvette Wallace, M.Ed, Veteran Educator, Mr. Fitzroy Wilkin, Veteran Technical and Vocational Educator and Pastor St. Clair Archibald Sr. will work together in different areas to help bring this Dare 2 Be Different Academy Dream to pass.
The Dare 2 Be Different Academy and Bible Institute's Online Interface would allow several teachers to teach different subjects to several students all around the Caribbean and the world and also administer tests etc. Wallace made it absolutely clear that no matter how good a resume was, all individuals around the world applying in the future, MUST be a Platinum Supporting Member. (Learn how at: http://www.d2bdifferent.com/platinummember.htm). He contended that if his ministry was to help teachers and educators earn an extra income, it was imperative that they too help the ministry with its endeavours on a monthly basis for as long as they want to remain teaching.
To See Programs, ask questions and to register, visit: www.daretobedifferentacademy.com - Call 869-664-0911 / 786-401-4016 / BB PIN: 2A3CBAA3
All phases of the program are available except the Pre-School and Kindergarten section which will come on stream, God's willing in September 2013, but individuals can register early.
Campus Locations
Campus A is at Boyds - St. Kitts and has a mini computer training facility and spaces for small classes and agro-processing traing,
Campus B which is our Computer Training Facility is at OOJJs 24 hour Complex
Campus C - Pre-School & Kindergarten - Coming soon
Campus D - Online
Friday, January 11, 2013
$1000 Youth Businesses to Spur Economic Growth Globally and Put Hundreds to Work
The 26 year old President and Founder of Dare 2 Be Different International - www.daretobedifferentskn.com is at it again as he pushes to do what he does best - HELP AND EMPOWER YOUTHS. Wallace said that after 5 years of putting together one of his BIGGEST empowerment ideas for youth, he thought now was the time, at the beginning of the year to launch the endeavour as early as people around the world as many persons were still calling him, emailing him and reaching out for help with regards to JOBS.
$1000 Dollar Stores - www.1000dollarstores.com is a business in a box franchise project that would hand a working business over to the applicant within 7 - 21 working days after payment is made. The applicant doesn't have to do a thing. Dare 2 Be Different will register the business in the country, pay the necessary startup taxes, apply for concessions if applicable etc. On a case by case basis, youth applicants can be considered to invest more to start businesses that Khrystus Wallace has mastered such as Embroidery, Screen Printing, Banners and Signs, etc etc but are recommended to start first with a $1000 Store as he was in contact with DOZENS of WHOLESALE SUPPLIERS ready to give further discounts do business around the globe because things were tough.
The effort would be a joint partnership with Dare 2 Be Different International and the applicant that can be as young as 13 years old (Once they apply with a parent/guardian if under 18), For an investment of US$1000 - the applicant would get 60% of the profits while the ministry would get 40%.
All the youth applicants have to mainly do across the world is to sell their products and market on their social media pages, while a New Department of Dare 2 Be Different would do everything else. Accounting, Buying of goods at discounted prices, Maintain Websites, Backend Processing of Credit/Debit Cards, Social Media Marketing, Printing of T-shirts, Banners, Signs etc for the business to name a few of the partnership benefit.
The successful applicant would get an ECOMMERCE business with the following benefits:
* No rent to pay since they can just stock their items at home and deliver or ship
* A fully functional ECOMMERCE WEBSITE with the ability to charge credit / debit cards and also use their Blackberry / iPhone to charge too or anywhere an internet connection is.
* US$500 worth of products that they choose to sell,
* Discounted FEDEX & DHL Rates though Wallace's USA Business - www.thesupplyshopinc.com (Better than their country rates)
* Free Marketing and exposure especially on The Caribbean Auction Site - www.caribbesales.com
* Free printing of T-shirts, Polos, Banners, Signs etc because Dare 2 Be Different Internatioal is a partner organization of www.kvkenterprises.com and www.thesupplyshopinc.com
*+ other benefits listed on www.1000dollarstores.com
President Wallace said this initiative falls under their CATCH THEM YOUNG PROJECT where his ministry seeks to start introducing youths to the world of ENTREPRENEURSHIP AND AGRICULTURE and AGRO-PROCESSING EARLY because governments and the education system has started to push it far too late in people's lifetime and in children's educational system.
Mrs. Yvette Wallace, M.Ed and Dean of The Dare 2 Be Different Academy (that will open in September, 2013) confirmed that students will be introduced to Entrepreneurship, Agriculture and Agro-Processing in some way as early as Kindergarten so that by the time they reach Grade 4 then would be starting to make real money and by Form 2 or 3 - be running fully fledged businesses and balancing eduation too.
Khrystus commented - "What we find happening across the world now that we have economic problems is that governments all across the world are encouraging individuals to turn to entrepreneurship and agriculture and now trying to FORCE them to go to business labs workshops and start farming etc.
Many just attend but get no help at all. How can you teach Entrepreneurship at schools and not give the students startup capital. How can you be hosting all these business labs workshops and not let participants leave with at least a $500 startup cash in hand?
The $1000 store project is in fact a REAL LIFE BUSINESS LABS PROJECT that will give each applicant a WORKING BUSINESS and provide ongoing training under one roof - Dare 2 Be Different International. This is what I have been talking about for a long time - the power of clubs. The power of cooperatives.
You see, if the idea goes as planned and we have hundreds of our $1000 stores buying in bulk, shipping in bulk etc, those we buy with and ship with have no choice but to carry down our costs and therefore allow us to profit more. Talking about profits, young people will be able to immediately sell for less than the brick and mortar stores because they work from home via social media advertising their business and delivering their products and simply profiting. This is a WARNING to all those working for BRICK and MORTAR COMPANIES - start thinking about your own businesses. It is small businesses that are keeping countries alive and governments are not confessing it and not helping. There are only a few big businesses around and I am certain that they are not the ones keeping countries alive.
That is what I have been suggesting to ministry leaders all my life but no one has listened so I'm doing it myself. The Church should cater for the spiritual well being of individuals too but it also had a SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY as Jesus never allowed a crowd to follow him without feeding them."
Wallace has also recently added a new department to his FLORIDA BUSINESS called Integrity Professional Solutions - www.integrityprosolutions.com which would seek to market the services of his Dare 2 Be Different Supporting members around the world and connect them with people who need jobs completed so as to continue to provide MONEY for his members with NEEDS instead of just talking and talking and talking about HOPE IS AHEAD.
Another one of his projects that will come on stream during his 5th Anniversary Year is The People's Store. This store will only sell locally produced items by YOUTHS such as fruits, vegetables, clothes, craft, soap etc. The only things it will import are the items that cannot be produced locally such as toothpaste, pampers etc etc. The People's Store will also be a franchise project that will be in every country where a Dare 2 Be Different International is and will ONLY employ the organization's members.
President Khrystus ended by saying, "You see, I honestly launched these ahead of openingThe Victory Centre - www.thevictorycentre.com because I wanted to show folks that what I am saying that none of my global members would ever be unemployed was the truth because people have been asking me how I will get that happened. www.1000dollarstores.com and www.integrityprosolutions.com are part of the answers because we have many more ideas in the pipeline.
On a serious note though, every parent should invest in a $1000 dollar store from the moment their child turns 13 across the world. It will do two or three things.
1. Provide a practical way for children to stay occupied and out of trouble and off the streets, which is less work for law enforcement
2. It will help children start early to work and save for college and university and even teach them how hard their parents have to work to provide for them when they are doing it themselves and
3. Interestingly enough, because of Dare 2 Be Different's Ideas and Innovation, we are now going to see 13 and 14 and 15 year olds contributing to households and even paying bills. If Social Security allows it across the globe, their systems will become even stronger because DARE TO BE DIFFERENT INTERNATIONAL would have lowered the working age and helped to spur economic growth around the world. We will see 13 year olds who have businesses contributing to economic development since they too will be paying taxes. Imagine that. This is how you run AN EMPOWERMENT PROJECT"
Wallace who has never received a grant or funding of anytype from any organization, or any offerings or tithes on a weekly basis over the 5 years of his minstry's existence has never given up and continues to outshine many organizations that have a strong financial backing simply because he defintely has a heart for the people.
Sign up your youth for a $1000 Dollar Business today! - www.1000dollarstore.com
Global Investors interested in talking to Wallace and helping him carry out some of his personal innovative ideas and ideas for his ministry can email information@kwforchrist.com or BB PIN: 2A3CBAA3 or WhatsApp: 1-869-663-0114. He has dozens of executive summaries ready for review.
Thursday, January 10, 2013
Regional Media and Journalism Award Recognition For Khrystus Wallace
26 year old businessman, Founder, President and Ordained Minister of Dare 2 Be Different International - Mr. Khrystus Wallace seems to just be blessed in every area of his life. A recent letter into his ministry requested that Mr. Wallace be one of the featured speakers at the Jennifer Jones OECS and Barbados 2013 Media Awards Ceremony that will be held on the island of Grenada.
Wallace will speak on the theme - 'Recognising Excellence in Journalism - Chartering the way forward'
While Khrystus is accustomed to be recieving excellence awards since primary school, the letter excited Mr. Wallace as this is the first time that such a prestigious award would be named after him and his ministry for the OUTSTANDING WORK he has been doing as leader..
The letter stated, "Mr. Wallace we are cognisant of the very enormous and continuous contributions that you and your company continues to provide to the people of the region especially those in St Kitts and Nevis. As such, we are requesting your permission in naming some of the awards in honour of you as the founder and your organisation Dare to Be Different International."
Another highlight of the event would show that Wallace, a native of St. Kitts - Nevis would be the younger speaker ever to address the RED CARPET event. The letter continued, "Mr. Wallace the committee is very excited to have you as one of the speakers and must point out that you are the youngest person who will be speaking at this very impressive red carpet affair. It must be viewed as an accomplishment by you as your work and contributions within the region is duly being noted and recognised while its a honour to have someone like you gracing this event."
Mr. Khrystus Wallace will be addressing persons such as Honourable Prime Minister of Grenada, Tillman Thomas along with other key regional persons that will grace the awards ceremony.
Congratulations are in order to this dynamic young man on behalf of his Dare 2 Be Different International Team Members, supporters and followers locally, regionally and internationally.
Wallace's statements were to the point and scriptural, " Proverbs 22:29 Seest thou a man diligent in his business? he shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean men. I am most delighted that finally a reputable organization across the Caribbean Region is interestingly enough honouring the work that God is doing through my ministry Dare 2 Be Different International during this our 5th Anniversary year. This is actually our first gift and an outstanding and reputable gift indeed.
What saddens me though, is the fact that across the region, we are guilty of not recognizing the outstanding work that many persons are doing in their little ways in their HOMELANDS, and many times it takes folks from outside to do that. Then again, if that didn't happen, then the scripture won't be true ; " Matthew 13:57 And they were offended in him. But Jesus said unto them, A prophet is not without honour, save in his own country, and in his own house."
"I want to end by saying this. Dare 2 Be Different International is going to change that. After it took a regional organization to publicly commend me for the work I'm doing in my small country after no other body/firm ever did, I want to launch from today - The Give Credit Where Credit Is Due Innitiative which will seek to keep awards and recognitions going out to people firstly in St. Kitts - Nevis, across the region and the world for their work in different areas.
We certainly won't have the resources to do a red carpet event each time, but a plaque, a crystal, a little gift will certainly show those working hard that there is still a ministry that cares. We are coming to the police, the hospital, to the public and private sectors, we are heading to homes with our awards, our cameras and we will be training our youths to write articles on you for the web. This is a practical way of teaching English because I won't have all the time.
I personally believe we should GIVE CREDIT TO FOLKS WHILE THEY ARE ALIVE and well and functioning. Psychology suggests that this can go a long way to boosting self esteem and morale and helping others produce even better.
So, don't be offended if we come to your church and award that person who has been singing well for years and all they get is a hand clap. If you don't allow us to make the presentation, we'll do it OUTSIDE the church or at their homes and make a big ado about it.
Don't be offended if we award that person in your office or business for their great customer service when
you are not valuing them. Employers, nothing is wrong with giving a $50 or $250 food voucher to help a good worker during this trying time. Pastors, nothing is wrong with giving a monetary donation to the members of your worship team and musicans once in a blue moon. AFTER ALL MAN. AFTER ALL. ALL FOR YOU?
Don't be surprised when people leave your organization and join Dare 2 Be Different International because they see who really cares and is looking out for them.
Wednesday, January 9, 2013
A Pastor Molested Me
The young man made contact again recently. This time his words literally ate me out and caused some tears to run down my eyes and I got an instant head ache.
He said, "Brother Khrystus, doesn't my story matter? Why haven't you shared it after all these months since we first spoke? Doesn't my story matter? You are writing about everything else. Nobody really cares for real boy. Nobody!" That was it, he didn't wait for me to respond and I haven't felt so badly in a long time with regards to one of my clients.
You see friend, months ago, a male client who receives these very same blog postings that you are reading now, shared with me his story of being molested by a pastor and asked me to share it to help others around the world know that they are not alone and to help warn parents about the many reputable predators out there waiting to take their children and teens as prey after giving them special gifts, special treatment and special company.
Some client stories I forget about because I talk with so many folks around the world. Others get etched in a special place in my heart never to be forgotten. When ever I think about them, I remember the one on one session, or telephone call, or Blackberry chat, WhatsApp Chat, Facebook Convo, Linked-In Chat, My Space Connection, Ovoo Talk, MSN Chat etc just like we spoke yesterday."
Here goes. My friend, I humbly apologize for not sharing. Some stories I write and don't have to think about, so I just flow. Since you asked me to keep sharing your story, build a website to reach out to others around the world so they can share their stories but not use your name, I had to think through for months and ascertain the appropriate time to share and carefully decide how best to approach this. Since it must be burning you and the hurt must be growing greater, I won't wait to launch the STOP THE RAPE - STOP THE MOLESTATION CAMPAIGN in this our 5th anniversary year - I will preamble it with your story NOW. I had no choice but to stop what I was doing and write now.
"Brother Khrystus," he paused for a long while then continued. "I have something to tell you and I want you to share it with the world to help others for as long as you stay so influential. You have to promise me though, that you would NEVER use my name or tell anyone else at all. AT ALL!"
How was I to make such a commitment I wondered to myself quickly? Did he Kill someone? If I promised to not tell, this could be obstruction of justice and I could be prosecuted. Should I tell him I can't commit to that promise? While I was thinking all soughts of things, he asked again- "You hear?"
I quickly sighed and sighed and responded, "Yes Sir. . . go on - I promise." I was really hoping that it wasn't something CRIMINAL he was involved in but I would keep my word.
"Brother Khrystus, I was molested by Pastor ___________. It still feels like a dream." The young man went into detail - every detail from beginning to end. Every gruesome - nasty detail. He said, "I'm above crying now Brother Khrystus, I walk so peacefully and reflect a happy look on the outside just to hide my pain. I try to stay patient and remain a people person because I don't want to stay away from individuals and let people see that something is wrong with me and I'm hurting.
I want you to know Brother Khrystus that the anger is built up so much within me that I am well capable of killing someone, not because I always look like everything is OK. When I lay at nights or spend time alone, the only memories I have are those that the "ANTIMAN PASTOR" have left with me. He's a DAMN ANTIMAN and preaches and people shout AMEN."
I put my left hand on my forehead, looked down at the ground for a while and then I asked, "Have you ever told anyone about this?" He responded, "No sir, you're the only F****** person and it has to stay right here or I'll kill you. You are free to share it, preach it, talk about it, but never use my name."
I never knew this person to ever swear at all. In counseling, you are not to look surprised, you are to let your client just flow and ease themselves and express themselves anyway they like.
I looked at him straight in the eyes and asked, "Why haven't you ever told anyone until now?" I kinda predicted what he'd say but I waited for him to say it. Just as I predicted, he responded, "Number 1 - Brother Khrystus
- People revere PASTORS as perfect people with no sins and if I talk out about a Pastor, everyone would say that I'm lying and wouldn't believe me and would pity the Pastor
- Number 2 - Even if I talk out, everyone would Ridicule me and call me the antiman and very few would call the pastor antiman
- Number 3 - Some pastors have been raping girls and molesting boys for years because I know about other cases too and those that start coming into the public are quickly hushed down to save the Pastor's name and he or she just continues on like nothing.
- Number 4 - My relatives and friends revere the pastor and think that he's just being nice and kind to me and others, but never knew and I doubt they would ever believe and I don't ever intend to tell them. If they ask me, I'll just say no. If they pressure me - I'll still say no.
- Number 5 - There is no where to go and report this crime. NO WHERE.
I said, no sir, each country has a Special Victims Unit that deals with these sort of things. He quickly responded, "SPECIAL VICTIMS UNIT? SPECIAL VICTIM UNIT? Then why is it when ever someone is raped, the whole world knows about it on their BB or on the media. The media doesn't call their names and I know of many cases that weren't public and when they were taken to the Police, they became public and everybody knew who the victim was. That would never happen to me - NEVER. I prefer to keep my business to myself."
- Number 6 - Nobody cares! Pastors know their pastor friends are doing this and instead they get together and condemn these happenings, all of ya'll keep ya'll mouths SHUT and let the sin continue and let the Pastors Pastor. Anyway, there are no true pastors around. Politicians doing crap and Pastors ain't even talking out. NOBODY CARES" he adamantly shouted.
Friend, he was really angry. I'll be honest. He said he was capable of killing because of everything he had stored up in him and he had me a bit uneasy. Even as I write, I am being very careful not to give any clue of his name but I understood him so well.
I won't use this article to talk to parents about how to monitor their children and teens with reputable and non reputable adults. I would also not use it to talk about how people honestly see the police when they have to deal with these type of cases too. I wouldn't use it to talk about how some of YOU have Pastors higher than KING JESUS. I wouldn't use it to talk about how VICTIMS that REPORT such heinous crimes which is the right thing to do, get bashed by society. I wouldn't use it to talk about many of my other clients around the world - male and female alike that have been raped or molested or fondled by ministers of the gospel. I won't use it to talk about how WE - AS CHRISTIANS - AS MINISTERS OF THE GOSPEL show a don't-care attitude many times and don't speak out against WRONG just to remain popular and not lose our monthly gifts of offerings and tithes.
All these are topics all by themselves that I may write on if the Lord permits and as I work on doing a number of things in honour of this young man who contacted again to get his story shared.
What I will use the last paragraph of this article to do as a matter of URGENCY, is to BEG parents and guardians to closely monitor your children and youths with both male and female ministers. Do not revere them as GOD. When you see your child getting extra special gifts and treatment from individuals, don't take it for granted. Investigate it. Mind you, there are some very honest, helpful people, but there are many wolves in sheep clothing and wearing a MINISTER COLLAR too.
Don't you remember that David was a man after God's own heart when he sinned with BATHSHEBA and aided in executing a MURDER? Yes the David of PSALMS.
Sometimes I continue to wonder if anyone ever bothers with these articles and if I should just stop writing and go back to using my network to advertise only. A few days ago, one of my clients emailed me and inquired as to why they don't receive regular discount coupons and promotions in their email so fast anymore, because that's just how all their youths got to print shirts for less a few years ago, as they printed over 50 of them using $5 Print Coupons they got in one of my EMAIL PROMOS. I smiled and remembered that order at www.kvkenterprises.com so well.
Then . . .I wondered - do these Dare 2 Be Different International Articles really matter? Like the gentleman asked me - Does anyone really care? Will the police do anything to step up on their special victims unit? Will we continue to see Pastors as Gods? or look at US - YES US - more closely?
On the website that our ministry will work on in honour of this young man who bravely spoke out, Other Victims from St. Kitts - Nevis, The Caribbean and The World will be able to share their stories too and when our ministry has enough confidence in the authorities and can be assured that our legal system gets up to date so that such cases can be tried without public exposure of the victim in a private setting, then and only then we would be able to see the community and the police holding hands to fight against crime.
If you are a victim of molestation or rape by anyone, Dare 2 Be Different International is there to reach out and help. We believe, that we are the organization God has placed in the Caribbean and on earth that will help to bring back up cases that VICTIMS thought are off the books since they happened 2 years ago, 5 years ago, 10 years ago, 15 years ago and help get you JUSTICE.
It is happening in the USA - we believe that our law enforcement and legal system is just as capable too and we encourage you to start talking out and reaching out to a person of confidence and we do expect to hear our regional law enforcement TOP OFFICIALS making regular media briefings so as to make VICTIMS comfortable that they are now up to scratch to carefully, non-publicly handle such cases.
Young man - I applaud you. I applaud you greatly. Although you didn't share your name, you have resurrected a matter that has been sleeping for years and we promise to continue to blog about it, talk on radio about it, write articles about it, until WE as pastors get our acts together and STEP DOWN if we are guilty of such, or aim to KEEP OUR STANDARDS HIGH and try our best to do as much RIGHT as we humanly can.
If you are apart of a FLOCK around the world and you very well know that your pastor is a CHILD PREDATOR or you have been molested by him or her, but kept down and under pressure, Jesus can talk care and set you FREE - RIGHT NOW. Do not be subject anymore - begin to speak out all around the world. You are worth more than $5000 or a Blackberry or regular topups and food hampers from your pastor. Do not worry about all the fancy gifts you have received in the past - At the start of this 2013 - decide to come out from BONDAGE - SPEAK OUT LIKE THIS YOUNG MAN AND HELP OTHERS.
You DO NOT deserve to be the one that can't sleep and always stay hurting. You can change that tonight by agreeing to start talking out. Cause a Minister of the Gospel or reputable businessperson or government official not to sleep. When they text you or call you - do not answer. That is your first step of turning things around - STANDING UP TO THEM and SHOWING THEM THAT YOU ARE NOT AFRAID - your next step is to tell someone - YES YOU CAN!
Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
In Christ,
Khrystus Wallace, President and Founder
Dare 2 Be Different International
www.daretobedifferentskn.com
He said, "Brother Khrystus, doesn't my story matter? Why haven't you shared it after all these months since we first spoke? Doesn't my story matter? You are writing about everything else. Nobody really cares for real boy. Nobody!" That was it, he didn't wait for me to respond and I haven't felt so badly in a long time with regards to one of my clients.
You see friend, months ago, a male client who receives these very same blog postings that you are reading now, shared with me his story of being molested by a pastor and asked me to share it to help others around the world know that they are not alone and to help warn parents about the many reputable predators out there waiting to take their children and teens as prey after giving them special gifts, special treatment and special company.
Some client stories I forget about because I talk with so many folks around the world. Others get etched in a special place in my heart never to be forgotten. When ever I think about them, I remember the one on one session, or telephone call, or Blackberry chat, WhatsApp Chat, Facebook Convo, Linked-In Chat, My Space Connection, Ovoo Talk, MSN Chat etc just like we spoke yesterday."
Here goes. My friend, I humbly apologize for not sharing. Some stories I write and don't have to think about, so I just flow. Since you asked me to keep sharing your story, build a website to reach out to others around the world so they can share their stories but not use your name, I had to think through for months and ascertain the appropriate time to share and carefully decide how best to approach this. Since it must be burning you and the hurt must be growing greater, I won't wait to launch the STOP THE RAPE - STOP THE MOLESTATION CAMPAIGN in this our 5th anniversary year - I will preamble it with your story NOW. I had no choice but to stop what I was doing and write now.
"Brother Khrystus," he paused for a long while then continued. "I have something to tell you and I want you to share it with the world to help others for as long as you stay so influential. You have to promise me though, that you would NEVER use my name or tell anyone else at all. AT ALL!"
How was I to make such a commitment I wondered to myself quickly? Did he Kill someone? If I promised to not tell, this could be obstruction of justice and I could be prosecuted. Should I tell him I can't commit to that promise? While I was thinking all soughts of things, he asked again- "You hear?"
I quickly sighed and sighed and responded, "Yes Sir. . . go on - I promise." I was really hoping that it wasn't something CRIMINAL he was involved in but I would keep my word.
"Brother Khrystus, I was molested by Pastor ___________. It still feels like a dream." The young man went into detail - every detail from beginning to end. Every gruesome - nasty detail. He said, "I'm above crying now Brother Khrystus, I walk so peacefully and reflect a happy look on the outside just to hide my pain. I try to stay patient and remain a people person because I don't want to stay away from individuals and let people see that something is wrong with me and I'm hurting.
I want you to know Brother Khrystus that the anger is built up so much within me that I am well capable of killing someone, not because I always look like everything is OK. When I lay at nights or spend time alone, the only memories I have are those that the "ANTIMAN PASTOR" have left with me. He's a DAMN ANTIMAN and preaches and people shout AMEN."
I put my left hand on my forehead, looked down at the ground for a while and then I asked, "Have you ever told anyone about this?" He responded, "No sir, you're the only F****** person and it has to stay right here or I'll kill you. You are free to share it, preach it, talk about it, but never use my name."
I never knew this person to ever swear at all. In counseling, you are not to look surprised, you are to let your client just flow and ease themselves and express themselves anyway they like.
I looked at him straight in the eyes and asked, "Why haven't you ever told anyone until now?" I kinda predicted what he'd say but I waited for him to say it. Just as I predicted, he responded, "Number 1 - Brother Khrystus
- People revere PASTORS as perfect people with no sins and if I talk out about a Pastor, everyone would say that I'm lying and wouldn't believe me and would pity the Pastor
- Number 2 - Even if I talk out, everyone would Ridicule me and call me the antiman and very few would call the pastor antiman
- Number 3 - Some pastors have been raping girls and molesting boys for years because I know about other cases too and those that start coming into the public are quickly hushed down to save the Pastor's name and he or she just continues on like nothing.
- Number 4 - My relatives and friends revere the pastor and think that he's just being nice and kind to me and others, but never knew and I doubt they would ever believe and I don't ever intend to tell them. If they ask me, I'll just say no. If they pressure me - I'll still say no.
- Number 5 - There is no where to go and report this crime. NO WHERE.
I said, no sir, each country has a Special Victims Unit that deals with these sort of things. He quickly responded, "SPECIAL VICTIMS UNIT? SPECIAL VICTIM UNIT? Then why is it when ever someone is raped, the whole world knows about it on their BB or on the media. The media doesn't call their names and I know of many cases that weren't public and when they were taken to the Police, they became public and everybody knew who the victim was. That would never happen to me - NEVER. I prefer to keep my business to myself."
- Number 6 - Nobody cares! Pastors know their pastor friends are doing this and instead they get together and condemn these happenings, all of ya'll keep ya'll mouths SHUT and let the sin continue and let the Pastors Pastor. Anyway, there are no true pastors around. Politicians doing crap and Pastors ain't even talking out. NOBODY CARES" he adamantly shouted.
Friend, he was really angry. I'll be honest. He said he was capable of killing because of everything he had stored up in him and he had me a bit uneasy. Even as I write, I am being very careful not to give any clue of his name but I understood him so well.
I won't use this article to talk to parents about how to monitor their children and teens with reputable and non reputable adults. I would also not use it to talk about how people honestly see the police when they have to deal with these type of cases too. I wouldn't use it to talk about how some of YOU have Pastors higher than KING JESUS. I wouldn't use it to talk about how VICTIMS that REPORT such heinous crimes which is the right thing to do, get bashed by society. I wouldn't use it to talk about many of my other clients around the world - male and female alike that have been raped or molested or fondled by ministers of the gospel. I won't use it to talk about how WE - AS CHRISTIANS - AS MINISTERS OF THE GOSPEL show a don't-care attitude many times and don't speak out against WRONG just to remain popular and not lose our monthly gifts of offerings and tithes.
All these are topics all by themselves that I may write on if the Lord permits and as I work on doing a number of things in honour of this young man who contacted again to get his story shared.
What I will use the last paragraph of this article to do as a matter of URGENCY, is to BEG parents and guardians to closely monitor your children and youths with both male and female ministers. Do not revere them as GOD. When you see your child getting extra special gifts and treatment from individuals, don't take it for granted. Investigate it. Mind you, there are some very honest, helpful people, but there are many wolves in sheep clothing and wearing a MINISTER COLLAR too.
Don't you remember that David was a man after God's own heart when he sinned with BATHSHEBA and aided in executing a MURDER? Yes the David of PSALMS.
Sometimes I continue to wonder if anyone ever bothers with these articles and if I should just stop writing and go back to using my network to advertise only. A few days ago, one of my clients emailed me and inquired as to why they don't receive regular discount coupons and promotions in their email so fast anymore, because that's just how all their youths got to print shirts for less a few years ago, as they printed over 50 of them using $5 Print Coupons they got in one of my EMAIL PROMOS. I smiled and remembered that order at www.kvkenterprises.com so well.
Then . . .I wondered - do these Dare 2 Be Different International Articles really matter? Like the gentleman asked me - Does anyone really care? Will the police do anything to step up on their special victims unit? Will we continue to see Pastors as Gods? or look at US - YES US - more closely?
On the website that our ministry will work on in honour of this young man who bravely spoke out, Other Victims from St. Kitts - Nevis, The Caribbean and The World will be able to share their stories too and when our ministry has enough confidence in the authorities and can be assured that our legal system gets up to date so that such cases can be tried without public exposure of the victim in a private setting, then and only then we would be able to see the community and the police holding hands to fight against crime.
If you are a victim of molestation or rape by anyone, Dare 2 Be Different International is there to reach out and help. We believe, that we are the organization God has placed in the Caribbean and on earth that will help to bring back up cases that VICTIMS thought are off the books since they happened 2 years ago, 5 years ago, 10 years ago, 15 years ago and help get you JUSTICE.
It is happening in the USA - we believe that our law enforcement and legal system is just as capable too and we encourage you to start talking out and reaching out to a person of confidence and we do expect to hear our regional law enforcement TOP OFFICIALS making regular media briefings so as to make VICTIMS comfortable that they are now up to scratch to carefully, non-publicly handle such cases.
Young man - I applaud you. I applaud you greatly. Although you didn't share your name, you have resurrected a matter that has been sleeping for years and we promise to continue to blog about it, talk on radio about it, write articles about it, until WE as pastors get our acts together and STEP DOWN if we are guilty of such, or aim to KEEP OUR STANDARDS HIGH and try our best to do as much RIGHT as we humanly can.
If you are apart of a FLOCK around the world and you very well know that your pastor is a CHILD PREDATOR or you have been molested by him or her, but kept down and under pressure, Jesus can talk care and set you FREE - RIGHT NOW. Do not be subject anymore - begin to speak out all around the world. You are worth more than $5000 or a Blackberry or regular topups and food hampers from your pastor. Do not worry about all the fancy gifts you have received in the past - At the start of this 2013 - decide to come out from BONDAGE - SPEAK OUT LIKE THIS YOUNG MAN AND HELP OTHERS.
You DO NOT deserve to be the one that can't sleep and always stay hurting. You can change that tonight by agreeing to start talking out. Cause a Minister of the Gospel or reputable businessperson or government official not to sleep. When they text you or call you - do not answer. That is your first step of turning things around - STANDING UP TO THEM and SHOWING THEM THAT YOU ARE NOT AFRAID - your next step is to tell someone - YES YOU CAN!
Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
In Christ,
Khrystus Wallace, President and Founder
Dare 2 Be Different International
www.daretobedifferentskn.com
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