Sometimes things happen to you and at the time they seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never have realised your potential, strength, will power of the heart. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing by chance or by luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments or true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of the soul. With these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be smooth paved flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but still dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet who affect your life and successes and downfalls you experience, they are the ones who create who you are. Even the bad experience can be learned from... those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones... If someone hurts you, or betrays you, or breaks your heart...forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust... And the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back Unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes..to things you would have never seen or felt without them. Make everyday count.
Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can,for you may never be able to experience it again. You can make your life anything you wish. I wish you all the best in your endeavours as well as struggles in life.